At the heart of every relationship is the desire to feel safe, seen, and deeply understood.
In couples counselling, I create a space where each partner can show up with honesty and vulnerability, free from judgment or blame. We explore how unconscious beliefs about worthiness, love, and safety often shape the way we relate. Many of the recurring challenges in partnership are not about the other person, but about the unresolved inadequacies and fears we bring into the relationship, often unconsciously.
Rediscover connection and create a conscious relationship rooted in truth, presence, and emotional intimacy. I help couples move beyond surface-level dynamics to explore conscious, authentic partnership, where communication deepens, healing unfolds, and both individuals feel truly seen. Grounded in trauma-informed care and inspired by the work of Gabor Maté, David Deida, and others, our work together becomes a catalyst for growth, both individually and in relationship.
Within my approach to Couples Counselling, I invite couples and individuals to experience conscious relationship. In this dynamic we understand that the relationship is not a refuge from pain, it is a mirror. Our partner reflects to us the places where love still wants to flow. This can be incredibly uncomfortable yet profoundly healing. When we meet these moments with compassion instead of defensiveness, we alchemize pain into love.
“Conflict is a symptom of disconnection — not a failure. When we meet each other with safety and appreciation, the relationship becomes the medicine.”
Let’s create a rhythm that works for you. While in-person sessions are ideal for depth and connection, I understand that life’s demands can vary. Whether we meet face-to-face or connect virtually, I offer flexible options to support your schedule and location, so you can show up in the way that feels most accessible and easeful.
Let's ensure that your sessions are conducted in the most convenient way for you. Ideally, we are meeting in-person; however, circumstances may dictate otherwise and we can work with that. Options are available to accommodate both your schedule and your location.
Finding a therapist who feels like the right fit matters. That’s why I offer a free 15-minute virtual consultation. There’s no pressure, just an open, supportive conversation to help you decide if this path feels aligned for you.
Your most foundational relationship is the one you have with yourself. Individual counselling offers a space to move beyond survival strategies, and to step into a life of greater freedom, mindset transformation, and self-trust. This is not about “fixing” yourself, it’s about remembering who you truly are.
In a space held with compassion and care we gently explore the deeper layers beneath your relational patterns. Together, we uncover how unconscious beliefs around worthiness, love, and safety quietly shape your connection: how you listen, how you speak, how you protect, and how you long to be met. As these unseen narratives come into the light, healing becomes possible, not just between you, but within you.
Finding a therapist who feels like the right fit matters. That’s why I offer a free 15-minute virtual consultation. There’s no pressure, just an open, supportive conversation to help you decide if this path feels aligned for you.
Your most foundational relationship is the one you have with yourself. Individual counselling offers a space to move beyond survival strategies, and to step into a life of greater freedom, mindset transformation, and self-trust. This is not about “fixing” yourself, it’s about remembering who you truly are.
In a space held with compassion and care we gently explore the deeper layers beneath your relational patterns. Together, we uncover how unconscious beliefs around worthiness, love, and safety quietly shape your connection: how you listen, how you speak, how you protect, and how you long to be met. As these unseen narratives come into the light, healing becomes possible, not just between you, but within you.
"You can only meet someone as deeply as you’ve met yourself."
Couples counselling offers a supportive space where honesty and vulnerability can unfold free from judgment or blame. Together, we explore the hidden beliefs about worth, love, and safety that often shape how we connect, communicate, and respond in relationships.
Many recurring challenges in partnership are less about the other person and more about the unresolved fears, insecurities, and unmet needs we carry unconsciously into the relationship. In this space, we gently look beneath the surface of conflict to uncover these deeper emotional wounds and the survival strategies that may be driving disconnection.
When partners begin to recognize each other’s pain not as a threat, but as a reflection of past hurt, a new kind of intimacy becomes possible, One rooted in empathy instead of reactivity.
This work is about shifting from protection to connection.
Through couples counselling, you’ll learn practical communication tools that build emotional safety and foster mutual understanding. As trust deepens, space opens for authentic intimacy, where love is no longer filtered through past wounds, and both partners feel seen, supported, and respected.
Whether you're moving through disconnection, strained communication, or emotional distance, these sessions are a sacred invitation to return to one another, and to your truest selves with presence, compassion, and conscious love.
I have the honour of supporting individuals and couples through the deeply personal work of healing, reconnecting, and awakening in relationship.
I believe that relationships are not just containers for love, but catalysts to be in our full potential. My approach blends conscious communication, emotional healing, and sacred intimacy to help you unlock deeper love with your partner and with yourself.
Whether you are navigating conflict, longing for deeper intimacy, or yearning to heal old relational wounds, I support you in breaking free from the limiting subconscious stories that shape your relationships, while also learning to access your body’s innate intelligence and pleasure as a portal to freedom.
I am here as a guide to help you meet yourself and your partner in a whole new way - a conscious way.
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Need to get ahold of me? Maybe you're not quite ready to book that free initial consultation and only have a few questions. Not a problem. Simply click the Contact button and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.
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